E is the elephant in the room.
Spanking, whether for fun, discipline, stress relief or the erotic pleasure/pain conundrum, is a social taboo. Nobody wants to be accused, misunderstood or humiliated. So it stays there, a secret desire, unspoken, unacknowledged.
Many couples go through life not realising their partner’s deepest fantasies.
Unmet needs kept tucked away.
The hard part is asking, explaining.
Nothing ventured. Nothing gained.
She whipped her shades off her face to show him her look of relief. “I thought I was crazy. This need to belong to you and let you spank me. It shouldn’t be right, but it is and now, I don’t know how to say this easily… even if I’m good, I would want you to spank me.” Her voice was barely audible over the distant crashing waves and the squawk of seagulls above their heads.
From Driven Wild
7 thoughts on “Spanking A-Z Challenge – E is for…”
E is for Excellent post. Such a great analogy and you’re right about people not even trying to get their needs met. Sad, isn’t it?
It takes courage to admit to deep desires. I always try to add a little – it’s okay to be kinky – in my books.
Ooh, Jaye, you are so right! Great post.
Loved your excerpt 🙂
thank you 🙂
It’s a difficult thing, bringing your desires into the light of day. Great snippet and encouragement for others facing the same thing.
Coming out takes courage, you have to start somewhere and finding the right time and words isn’t easy.
Great post snd snippet Jaye, it is sad that many feel unable to share their desires and needs with their partner.